Well I would first like to talk to you first just to get an idea of the kinda things you are into and stuff. I would like to meet you in person in public or something just for a drink (with my boyfriend) just to talk and get to know eachother a little bit more and feel a little bit more comfotable. Then if you would like to meet my boyfriend and I for a drink or something before we "hook up" to get comfotable with him too then thats cool, or if you would rather we can just come back to our place and have some fun!

The main thing is that i want everyone to have a good time and feel comfortable with each other.
Depending on how well everything went, maybe we could get together again!
If you are looking for something a little more descriptive then this then please just ask.