Caucasian

Yes, always

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

6' 2, 230 lbs. (Proportionate)

Medium Brown

Brown

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

40 - 60

Single Men
Couples

Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

M-M-F Threesome
Group Sex
Other Alternative Lifestyle

I appear to have a personality that people respond to, primarily because, as a writer, I enjoy telling funny stories to entertain and I'm also extremely other-directed -- what the theologian Martin Buber called "I-Thou." I'm trilingual, educated, have a proclivity (as a former catholic? ) for no-no's ...including sex that I would have considered outre as a younger adult (I'm 50, but definitely look and ACT much younger; and I have energy). Am I good looking? I don't think so, but in all honesty I seem to be attractive to women and to some men as well...my politics are extremely liberal, as are my social, racial and cultural stances...I DESPISE racists BTW...I also believe in taking personal responsibility for things, instead of blaming someone else. I read prodigiously, play music (amateur), enjoy world and blues music...I have a great deal of intellectual energy -- some have called me a polymath (Hooey! I just use whatever I've been given genetically; everyone can do the same thing).

I signed up here because I am desperate to experience "kinky" sex -- even though I'm married, we haven't in a LONG while (don't think it will last much longer anyway)...and it's been a long time doing m2m, m-f, or anything else that doesn't require obeisance to the great god Onan. (one hand clapping...)

If I were to divide thoughts relating to gender, I'd say I am aroused by women (particularly now, in warm weather) about 80% of the time; with men, it's MUCH more selective and probably more rooted in a desire for strings-free, nearly anonymous and possibly somewhat rough sex (what Erica Jong called the "zipless f***" . Well, just got back from a concert and it's late in the evening and I've run out of superlatives. I'll just finish by saying that I am very passionate about everything I do, and that continues into the bedroom...

If you're reading this and I interest you -- male, female or couple -- PLEASE don't write to me in whitecized [sp?] dimestore vernacular -- e.g., "Hit me up dude," or "Wassup." That sort of banality just screams, "Delete Me!. The writer is a big old sphincter. " [read: a-hole] Be original. Use your mind. Thanks.

prufrock has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
prufrock can not entertain at their home.
prufrock would like to meet at a Cafe.
prufrock can travel up to 20 miles.

We would meet -- either a guy or couple -- and decide it's a go. We go to his/their apartment or home, where we immediatelyt get down to lust. This goes on for hours. With a guy - j.o. to start, and we take it from there. I don't categorize myself, either, sexually -- some days I feel dominant, others, passive. Can't predict, either. I also like to watch and be watched. Don't like leather, whips, etc., but I can get into some seriously fun stuff with the right combination of personalities.