Caucasian

Yes, always

I am a newbie (no experiences)

6' 2, 234 lbs. (Chubby)

Short White

Brown

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

35 - 99

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Semiretired man who has always lived straight but very aware I'm wanting to get close to other men. I although I am fairly sure that I am bisexual, I have always shied away from that in the past because of wanting to avoid offending good friends. However, the 'curious' is burning and would like to get it resolved without doing something stupid but even more so would like to make some friends that I can be open with. I am a technical professional who tends to travel so it is possible to meet and make contact in other areas. I like hiking and the out of doors including geocaching and canoeing (mainly flat water in ecologically interesting areas such as wet lands). A big book reader, mainly sci-fi but including mixtures of history, philosophy/comparative religion, and mysteries. Tend to be quiet and like to listen to others' experiences. My humor tends to be dry but real and sometimes even ascends to 'pun'ishment.

I am married and intend to maintain my commitment to my wife. She is aware that I am looking for some opportunities to meet others and has given me a limited okay. As a result, I am not actively seeking any hookups 'with benefits' involving other women, only men. I would like to establish friends with both men, women, and TG where I can be honest about my situation . . My wife and I have had an open marriage at one time but growing professional status and concerns of discretion have to shut that down. She has laid some rules on me that limit what I can do and are intended to protect her and I will honor those. One of those is Internet sex and posting nude photos so don't ask.

liberlib has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
liberlib can possibly entertain at their home.
liberlib would like to meet at an I am not sure yet.
liberlib can travel up to 150 miles.

Hang out, talk, get to know each other at a safe, neutral discrete meeting place such as a bar, cafe, coffe-shop,museum, outdoor spot, or even social gathering such as a dance. (The activity question is 'not sure yet' because it does not list 'public gathering place'). I would expect them to be willing to email/chat/webcam but not require cyber or phone sex and to develop the relationship and identify some initial limits and expectations. As an alternative, occasionally I might like to share a movie, play, or event with a coffee, drink, dinner, and/or dessert afterwards. Possible exception where I may cross my line may be a deliberate, pre-coordinated get together to get some 'education' on a particular skill or experience although even that would be based on some preliminary contact and limits