An ideal scenario in getting together, for us, could be: Meeting a third person (female) at a local coffee shop, mall, or any other public setting that they may decide is a place where they can feel comfortable and safe at for a first time meeting. Perhaps we would then share a bit about ourselves through conversation, get to know one another, feel each other out a bit and decide whether an attraction exists, or not. If it does exists, from there we could arrange to get together at our home and take it from there.
Another scenario which may possibility work for them, and which we would certainly be comfortable with: Verifying who we are, as well as who you are via phone and/or webcam2webcam (NOT to include nude web cam cybersex stuff in that while we understand that it may be fine by some, it does nothing for us). Then, skipping the cafe of other public place all together and meeting up at our home.
W can move quickly, or we can exercise patience. We don't tolerate weeks of phone contact only and/or conversing via email/chat/online etc. Progressing to the next step at a snail's pace seems silly to us, and we tend to avoid long drawn out internet contact. This is something we use the internet for as a mode to finding people to meet, not for forming a relationship/friendship. We like FACE TO FACE/IN THE FLESH, and that is what we are here for.