Caucasian

Yes, always

I have a good amount of experience

5' 8, 350 lbs. (Overweight)

Medium Grey

Blue

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

45 - 65

Single Men

Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

1 on 1 Sexual Relationship

My lady who I adore told me some time ago to 'be discreet, be safe and don't tell me about it'.


I am a 47yr old bisexual pre-op FtM. I've been with both men and womyn. I've come to terms with my transgender status, my bisexuality and am comfortable in it and in my own skin. I am emotionally and mentally stable, don't play games and am as 'str8' forward as I can possibly be. As a person I'm laid back, easy to get along with. After a lot of internal struggle I've realized that in order to stay sane, emotionally and mentally healthy I need to be sexual. Due to hormonal and mental health issues my lady of 9yrs has been unable for most of that to be active with me. So I've chosen to pursue activities outside the marital bedroom. Since my chocie of life partner is female my choice of other sexual partners is male - bi, gay, str8, doesn't matter.


Along with doing what I have to do in order to keep myself inwardly balanced, I've gone back to school to become a therapist to get myself off disability and start making a real and decent living. Granted I'm looking at 5yrs of college but that's okay I can live with that.

ftmbiqueer56 has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
ftmbiqueer56 can not entertain at their home.
ftmbiqueer56 would like to meet at a Cafe.
ftmbiqueer56 can travel up to 200 miles.

My ideal is meeting someone who is willing to communicate and meet for coffee and then see how the real time attraction is. I've learned that online attraction can be very deceptive. Better to meet real time, see if there's a spark, and then proceed. In truth, I'm primarily looking for someone who enjoys sex, wants sex, will make the most of any time spent together. So if the first time we click I see no reason for not proceeding on to the fun.

It's pretty much the same thing with meeting this strong man who would help me mold my life. Meet, see if we click, if we do negotiate over the next cup of coffee, go to where we can be alone and proceed.

I need for this person to be serious about being involved with me though. I've had others contact me and then disappear into the ether after an email or two. So unless you're willing to follow through please don't waste both our times, please.