Condensed version: Long time married plus size couple, hubby is bi-curious, both interested in

with another male. Must be discreet. Would love to chat with you and possibly get together for some fun. Wife likes to sext and share photos of her and us with the right type of guy. We'd love hubby to have a cock in his ass while he fucks me or eats my pussy.
In detail:
Looking for a Bi or Bi-curious guy to have an MMF threesome and possible friends with benefits relationship.
Here are some criteria (and facts about us):
Must be between 35-55 years old (I'm 44, he's 51)
Manly guys (don't care for CD or lingerie on a man, just not my thing)
Not too skinny (we're both chubby)

s to watch porn
Be available for sexting and exchanging dirty photos & videos
Jerk off for me in a video (I love to hear a man moan of pleasure when he cums)
Isn't turned off by smokers (not smoking during any play of course)

s to give oral (especially pussy, also cock, maybe even ass!)
Likes to receive oral (we'll both suck your cock)

s to fuck wet pussies (I'm ready and waiting)
Wants to perform anal with a man (I'll just take it in my pussy please)
Wants anal performed on him (hubbys cock or one of our toys)
I would love to:
talk dirty with you (chat or phone sex)
watch you stroke your cock & hear you moan with pleasure when you cum
let hubby watch as you fuck me
have a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth
have you eat my pussy while hubby fucks me then you both change places
let me lick my cum off your cock after you've fucked me
role play (submissive, dominant - I can be an obedient slut or make you a slave to worship my pussy)
have you and hubby make me squirt -
My biggest turn ons in a guy is:
sense of humor, willingness to have fun and try new things
some meat on his bones
nice HARD dick (I prefer girth over length - 5-6" and thick is great!)
dark hair or bald...grey or white is good too, but I don't care for blondes or redheads (even though I'm a ginger!)
not too much facial hair (hubby has a big mustache) beards don't do anything for me and you'll face will be getting wet if you eat me!
being honest in what you want and communicating
Hubby's main criteria is that you are horny with a hard cock and willing to please us both!
Dealbreakers:
unclean (must be DDF, no STD history)
rude
too young
too skinny
misleading/ untrustworthy (doesn't have spouse's blessing)
you look like a family member (gross!)
you're into pain, humiliation or bathroom stuff (another gross!)