We’d probably had talked a bit by email phone/chat so we would be a bit more comfortable when we meet at some public place where we can grab a drink or a bite and just relax, be ourselves and get to know each other. Just hanging out talking, sharing stories, joking, probably flirting and getting the vibe of each other. Seeing if our interests, personalities, chemistry is mess well, if the attraction is mutual and all that.
I know for myself how our personalities and chemistry mess is more important to me then just simple physical attraction. Its the chemistry and personality that attracts me to other that pulls me in.
I figuire as long as everyone is feeling the same way (not because we’re drinking) but because were really vibing each other then were in good.
Then maybe we’ll head out somewhere else or make plans to get together and chat in-between.
Though there has been a couple people i met over the years where we walked back to their car giving new meaning to PBA
And there was that one time when a now ex and I first met, ended up skinny dipping in a lake in a park at night (almost got a ticket) but the cop was cool.