I am married. My wife and I are strictly monogamous, however we are very open to each other's fantasies and curiousities as it enhances our own sex life. My wife isn't too into the male-male sexual fantasy, tho, and leaves me to engage my fantasies on my own, through porn, mainly. As much as I enjoy that, I'm really interested in and turned on by the idea of chatting with or talking to another guy about male-male fantasies.
chat, perhaps. Seems like a fun & safe way to explore my feelings, build confidence and bond with another guy in a sexy, lusty, passionate way.