We kinda skipped this, but after a few experiences, we wanted to give you a better idea of who we are...
Hmmmm.. what are we looking for? Well, we've had our experience with a guy who wasn't ok with himself and misrepresented what he wanted, which basically boils down to...after I cum, I now feel guilty. We aren't looking for a life-mate (we aren't poly), just someone fun that we can do things with that dont always involve sex. We're both just down to earth, we like to cook, watch some movies (be it zombie flicks, old Maureen O'hara swashbucklers, or anything in between)...also love to have costume parties (or nights, New Orleanians dont need a reason to dress up).
So your questions kinda boil down to what we said in our profile. BE YOU. There are times when he will be out of the country for extended periods of time, and if you're someone we both like, then the sexual relief thing is ok without him being here. There's also the..."damn, maybe no sex, but kinda cool to have a barbque" and just hang out, laugh, giggle and maybe just be a friend.
He and I both believe in a saying we made up, but it illustrates a point. He and I are soul partners. It's like tennis to us. It's a lot of fun as a physical activity...and if you like physical activities, there's nothing wrong with it. Just because we love each other doesn't mean that we don't occassionally want to play tennis against someone else. You would never limit yourself to only playing one person in tennis, unless you were obsessed with winning.
We have both already won our game. We love to play with each other, but every match is about how much better we may be able to play the next time...If Agassi only played Sampras, he'd never have won all that he did ...But a new opponent? New opponent, new strategy.
Our emotions say....we love each other, and in that, we are monogamous.
is just pure physical fun...like tennis...it never means we can't enjoy a game with someone else...and what better than to see someone you love do well at a sport you both enjoy? We love people, period. No, neither of us will connect on all levels... (he never likes her pack-rat mentality, and she hates the way he drives). It's always about compromise. If you have that kind of attitude, we love you, and you're welcome with us. It's a long road, and the more of us that hold hands together to walk it, the better.
If you agree, contact us, if you don't, contact us... sometimes opposites attract, and sometimes make for best friends.