this is only after 1 or 2 meetings! NOT THE 1ST DATE!O.K.(PROBABLY 1ST) LOL
ok, sorry i told u i would b back! our ideal situation would b something like;
meeting a couple, @ a restaurant, 4 some good food,drinks, & laughs.we would discuss ours, & theirs, likes & dislikes.
then if we ALL felt comfortable enuff we would either go back 2 their place or ours, or wherever,& @ 1st my wife & The female of the other couple, would get more acquainted

.while me & her husband watched,& when he & I got horny watching them, then he & I would start on each other.I probably making the 1st move

OR, if he is srt8, then we would wait till our wives were thru, then ask if we could join

but only with the same partner @ 1st.
Then when all was comfortable, we would swap partners.