Caucasian

Only when it's requested

I have a good amount of experience

6' 0, 290 lbs. (Chubby)

Short Light Brown

Hazel

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

40 - 99

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person

1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Group Sex

I am a literate, polite, witty, sensitive bi-married-male bear who swings alone (i.e. "cheats". Just north of 50, I'm rediscovering aspects of my sexuality that were buried long ago and finding new excitement in life.

emesistray has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
emesistray can possibly entertain at their home.
emesistray would like to meet at a Cafe.
emesistray can travel up to 250 miles.

When initial connections turn into long, detailed, conversations about life, love, sex -- whatever is on our minds; when acquaintance becomes friendship; when comfort is felt on all sides; then we can procede to next steps. By then we'll know if there's a "click" or not. If yes, we can move on to more intimate encounters (candle light will figure prominently, I'm sure). At that point we'll feel safe and secure with one another and free to explore wherever our passion leads us. We'll be "special friends." There'll be lots and lots of teasing and anticipation before the big payoff, but there WILL be a payoff.