Hi there! I am a bisexual female looking for a girlfriend. I am married to a wonderful straight guy who is fine with not being included with me and my girlfriend but who does, of course, enjoy it very much when he is included. So whether he is "part of the package" or not completely depends on the girlfriend in question. If he IS included I prefer it to be later, after I've already established a relationship with a girl. As for me, I'm a bit of a Goth Chick, have a dark sense of humor, I bellydance and love to go out dancing with girlfriends to clubs when I can get away from Helena since there's no clubs to speak of here. I love movies and music (just about anything except pop, country or rap!) and am an avid reader and book collector, mostly historical, sci-fi and horror. I am definitely looking for compatibility and friendship before sex! I am STD free and child free. You should be too!